#AdoptionTalk: Are they twins?
There are lots of interpretations of the term, but in adoption circles, it typically refers to two (or more) siblings who are less than a year apart in age.
I belong to a Twiblings group on Facebook, but we don’t call our boys Twiblings. They’re twins – just not biological. Seriously. The blonde is less than 7 hours older than the brunette. And they were born in the same hospital. And we get to keep both of them forever.
These two boys were meant to be brothers. Spend 5 minutes with them, and you’ll know it, too. If you need more proof, you can read the sequence of far-too-many-to-be-coincidence events that aligned and blessed us with two happy, boisterous, affectionate, spirited, funny, exasperating beautiful boys here and here.
When I wrote those posts, in November 2013, I was pretty confident that we would be finalizing their adoptions very soon.
But, foster care.
Squish was freed for adoption on Thanksgiving Day, but we didn’t actually finalize his adoption until March 2014. In between, we spent months on pins and needles waiting to see whether his paternal grandmother’s homestudy would be approved so we could move onto the adoption selection committee. The expedited ICPC (out-of-state homestudy) was requested in July 2013 and case management could never get a straight answer about the holdup. In January 2014, our CM heard from the ICPC CM that the homestudy was going to be denied. But we couldn’t move forward until we got the official paperwork. Which didn’t show up until mid-February. I really, truly didn’t let myself believe that it was actually happening until the judge signed the paperwork.
One down, one to go. But the road to Squirm’s adoption was even more treacherous and unpredictable. But that’s all the time to have for today. 😉 Come back on February 5th for the Rest of the Story. (spoiler alert: it’s a happy ending)
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